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FMF,

I think the proposition that those who give more to charity (though some cosmic double entry accounting) will receive more material wealth in return is, at best, dubious. I donate a significant amount of money to my church and other charities solely because it's the right thing to do. I think it's antithetical to judeo-christian teachings to link charity to personal material enrichment.

Just my opinion.

Did you miss this paragraph:

"This doesn't mean that we give to get more. Really, our motivation should be to help others and that's why we should give. Then, as we're blessed even more financially, that allows us to give even more -- and the cycle goes on and on this way."

No I didn't miss it and I'm not implying that you suggested personal enrichment as a REASON to give. I'm stating that the very idea of a cause/effect relationship between giving and gaining is antithetical.

In what way?

We believe that giving is only part of the solution. We're constantly tight on money, so we don't donate as much as we'd like to charities.

We do give up a lot of our personal time to volunteer. If you believe that time=money, then we're on our way to giving a fortune.

Suggesting that there is a cause/effect relationship between charitable giving and future material wealth is, I believe, wrong on so many different levels.

- It confuses anecdotal correlation with causation

- It could be used as misguided reason to give when people should be giving for selfless reasons

- Do you really think that G-d or Jesus care if your personal net worth is increasing or decreasing? Does G-d make your stocks go up? What if two donors invest in the same stock - one short and one long? How does the great accountant in the sky deal with that?

- Mark 10:25

I'll take these one at a time:

"It confuses anecdotal correlation with causation."

I think that's the issue we're discussing -- does one cause the other or not.

"It could be used as misguided reason to give when people should be giving for selfless reasons."

I agree, that's why I highlighted the paragraph noted above.

Just because something could be used in the wrong way, doesn't mean it's not true/useful/right. Many (if not all) good ideas, products and services can be twisted for bad purposes. Does this mean we should do away with them?

"Do you really think that G-d or Jesus care if your personal net worth is increasing or decreasing? Does G-d make your stocks go up? What if two donors invest in the same stock - one short and one long? How does the great accountant in the sky deal with that?"

Do you? Obviously not. Do I? See the next section...

"Mark 10:25"

The direct answer to this is Mark 10:27. Everyone's saved by grace through faith -- even the rich.

In addition, how do you explain Luke 6:38, Mal. 3:10, and like verses?

In the end, there may be no solution here between us -- we have differing viewpoints where there may be no room for compromise. I'm just responding so that you know this is something I've thought about, studied on, and seen in my own life, not just an idea I posted on a whim.

Furthermore, I think it's interesting that almost every major personal finance author/speaker (David B., Suze, Robert (no matter what one may think of him), Dave R.) and so on, hold similar views.

I'm still wondering if you believe that G-d cares if you or I increase our material net worth and I'm not sure you answered the question directly.

As for an explanation of other passages that mention giving and receiving, my guess would be that it's intended as a metaphor for spiritual 'returns' versus cold, hard cash.

Concerning the self-help / personal finance authors you mentioned... I've never found their conclusions very compelling nor do I believe they are very rigorous in their analyses. They're fine for folks who haven't figured-out to how live within their means or that (surprise! surprise!) you need to save money for retirement. I don't find their writing compelling evidence that giving money to charity causes better returns on the S&P500. In fact, that's an idea... create a mutual fund that mimics the portfolios of the world's most prolific givers and see if you can consistently beat the market :-)

Might not be a bad idea.

I'm not sure what/who G-d is. Do you mean "God"? Why the G-d?

Did I say that God cares if we increase our material net worth? Is that even the topic? You may want to re-read what I actually said.

And you can't quote the Bible as rationale for an argument you favor and then dismiss it as a spiritual metaphor when you don't like what it says -- it doesn't work that way.

FMF,

As for G-d versus God, I was raised in a Jewish home and G-d is the accepted convention for writing God in the Jewish faith. Is that OK w/ you? (before you ask why I said 'church' in my first post, my family and I attend a UU church)

Your argument was that giving=getting. If this is the case, some non-earth-bound force (i.e. God) must make it happen because I doubt you believe your church can control the flow of wealth to its congregants. If God chooses to make it happen, I assume that God wants it to happen. If God didn't care, why God would make it happen? The question remains: do you personally believe that God rewards you, FMF, with material wealth for donating money to charity? This may not be exactly what you said, but I'm still interested in your answer.

You're right... I shouldn't have used one passage and dismissed the other. I really didn't want this discussion to become a rhetorical ping-pong match. I really just want to fully understand what your claiming and explore what other conclusions can be drawn based on the claim.

ER --

I'd never heard of "G-d" versus "God" before. Interesting. I'll ask my Jewish friends about it next time we're chatting. They always have their own unique spin on Jewish traditions.

To address the question you're asking fully, I'd need to write a post (a long one -- or a series -- at that), and I'm not going to do that in the comments section. (I've already spent enough time going back and forth to make up a couple posts.) Besides, I'm not sure you're generally interested in the thinking/rationale as much as you have already made up you mind and want to argue (or at least badger), and I'm simply not interested in that. It takes too much time and effort and I have other topics to address (after all, this blog doesn't write its own posts).

If I've read the conversation incorrectly and you're sincerely interested in what I think, then I apologize. I also point you to the links I noted above and will ask that you read my Sunday posts. They are always on "The Bible and Money" and cover my thoughts, in detail and with references, on how the two mix.

Holy cow, just posted that and I sound like a fifth grader learning English!

Make "generally" into "genuinely" and "you" into "your" and I think it will sound better. Sheesh.

Excellent article - nicely done! No surprises here... God puts seed into the hands of those who will sow. Keep up the good work!

FMR what a great topic/idea to post on a whim.
We are blessed just as you and your many friends have been as well.
True giving (without any thought of being rewarded) has changed our financial lives.
When we couldn't give dollars, we gave time, when we couldn't give time we gave dollars.
The latest example (one of dozens)is - 2 months ago we gave (there was no question of a loan) our struggling niece (who has supported herself magnificently since leaving home) $2,000.
Yesterday, unbeknown to our Accountant and ourselves we were pleasantly surprised with a $2,100 tax cheque - I wonder if we could call that 'Giving with Interest'? LOL

I don't understand (from some of the posts) the resistance to the idea of receiving after giving. How can a person continue to give if they don't continue to receive? It is part of a spiritual equation. I guess people feel more "holy" if they say they don't expect to receive anything. The motive for giving should always be because "it's the right thing to do", but I think it's O.K. to give even with the wrong motive. Just do it. There are a lot of people in need. They are not going to care about your "motive".

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