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My first full-time job was working for a psycho! Which is why there was a job opening in the first place---everyone kept quitting on her.

She was literally a screamer, losing it frequently and yelling and screaming at people who worked for her. She also micromanaged everything, never said anything positive, and treated us all like fools.

My approach was to respond to her screaming by being pleasant and polite and way calmer and more professional than she was, all the while thinking to myself what a total idiot she was making of herself. Exactly as if I was babysitting a preschooler having a tantrum!

My work with her went very well, although she never told me so. But the guy in the next lab noticed, and he offered me a great job working with him when he moved to a startup biotech.

My boss was so disgusted with me quitting that she told me to my face that I was terrible, would never get through grad school, and etc. I kept on being polite even then, but I definitely wasn't thinking the nicest thoughts when she said that!

A few years later I heard she got fired. I spent a year at the biotech, and then I went on to get my doctorate and my career has gone pretty well, actually.

I ran into my old boss once years later, in an elevator (talk about uncomfortable!), and even though I was pleasant and said "hi" she refused to talk to me--still the preschool kid!

It was very helpful to learn how to deal with that type of bad behavior early. I still have to deal sometimes with impolite and shouty coworkers--but no one was a bad as she was.

I thought you sold this blog months ago for "6 figures"?

Haha, George, late April Fool's!

FMF, these stories are great and I'm hanging on every word. Can't wait for the next installment.

FMF-

Great post, keep 'em comin'. Thanks for all the great info.

I love this series of posts.

Thank you so much FMF!

It keeps getting better. Can't wait to see the next one.

QUOTE: "Ultimately, you have to take a stand. I don't advocate yelling at your boss or even disagreeing with him strongly to the point of confrontation, but sometimes it can't be helped."

That's what I typically do: taking stands all the time but giving in to avoid a confrontation. However, on one occasion my boss took what I said personal and burst out in anger at me. I had presented arguments confidently and refuted his and he thought I was deriding him. I was really caught in surprise because that was not the case. These things happen. In my case, the fact that I held a diploma he very highly regarded (and didn't have himself -- why do these 2 so often go together?) might have played a role.

FMF, can you please share how your personal life was affected by all this work? Either in the comments or on a separate post, how did your (new) wife deal with you working such long hours? what about the kids?

George --

Yep, you need to read all the way to the end of posts. :-)

Thanks for making my day! I've never had such a successful April Fool's joke!!!!

HOW CAN I BECOME A MANIAC ?

ghuraba --

No kids at this point. Wife was "ok" with it as: 1) she knew what she was getting in for, 2) she worked as well at this point, and 3) she had family in the area and spent time with them a lot while I was busy.

Great stories, FMF. I can infer a lot more about your personality when I read about the types of challenges you took on.

I fully agree- put yourself into the storm and do your best, keep up a good attitude, and hope things go well. For people early in their career, this 'higher risk' career strategy is the fastest way to grow your career, both in title and financially.

Well done!

-Mike

I've also worked with a maniac. He had the worst temper I've ever seen, and the foulest demeanor of any professional that I've worked with. When he got angry, which was often, he'd turn beet red, and a vein would bulge on his forehead. My boss would jokingly whisper to me in meetings, "if we can get him a little more upset, maybe that vein will burst." No such luck. True to the Peter Principle, he was promoted to a more prestigious position.

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