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Interesting story, and you make an excellent point. You really have to keep your head up and be aware of change in the air.

I am willing to bet that it was all on purpose that the HR guy left the document open on the computer and conveniently left just when he knew you were coming by. Most people aren't comfortable being party to underhanded behavior, and this may be how he resolved the conflict in his own mind.

I had a similar situation once long ago---I had already made it clear I was leaving one job to apply to another opportunity. One of the reasons I was leaving was an inability to see eye-to-eye with the head of the department.

One day the department head's secretary, with whom I had had only "nice day, how are you" type of interactions, came and found me, insisting that I help her fix her jammed laser printer. I was kind of exasperated, because I had important things to do and it was far from my job description. But she insisted that there was no one else around to help her and she "knew" I could fix it fast, so wouldn't I please...?" So I relented mainly to get her off my back.

Guess what was "stuck" in the printer? My boss' recommendation letter about me! And it was pretty much a trash job.

I was shocked--I'd never thought he'd stoop to that! But apparently he was more annoyed that I thought at my leaving. Of course I couldn't change the letter, but now I knew that I needed to mention to future employers the personality conflict that was the source of my leaving my current position, and I also knew that I needed to get other letters of recommendation in addition to my boss's.

This was over 15 yrs ago...I don't think his bad letter did much harm to my career, but possibly it helped to have a chance to defuse it.

So always, ALWAYS, be super nice to the admin assistants! They usually know everything.

FMF, thanks for the career pieces. Your resume and career pieces are what keep me coming to your site over the other popular PF blogs. I know you just ended the jobs series, but I know you'll still post some tidbits from time to time.

PC --

Certainly. I'll keep writing career tips as long as I have this blog.

Nice series of articles. It was very interesting to read about your career history.

Seeing that document open at the HR guys desk is incredible. MC's theory that it was on purpose does make sense and that might very well be the case. Or they could have just been simply negligent.

FMF, again, thank you very much for sharing your career experiences. As someone just starting a career, it has been great to see the personal experiences you have had (lots of ups and downs!). This story reminds me of the one thing I dread once I start my job at a large corporation - office politics, pettiness, and selfish interests. Other than the slight apprehension that comes with that thought, I am very much looking forward to starting down my career path.

I'm crying imaginary tears at this series ending. :-)

I picked up a lot so thank you so much for sharing your career experiences. They're definitely the most enjoyable posts I've read on this site.

FMF,

Nice series. I liked how you picked up on the signs and knew what was going to happen. It's important to trust you instincts.

What I realize that when times are good vs times are bad, circumstances can change dramatically. It's interesting to see the way it pans out and when things get ugly the power politics come out.

I do have to say that I'm a bit like you in the regard that when things get really dirty (like firing your #2 and taking his job) I usually follow taking the high road, usually means getting out of there and finding something better. However it depends on how much breathing room you have financially and also the timing of another opportunity. But I think by taking the high road you can attract a better work situation for your future- I really do.

-Mike

Fascinating stuff! Man, you have a lot of drama in your life FMF! Guess you learn from it and get better.

Here's hoping you don't have to write another post in this in this series about your current employer!

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