The following is the latest post in my "Reader Profiles" series. Each post in this series details the financial situation and challenges of an FMF reader. The purpose of this series is to help us all identify with people like us (in similar situations -- not all will be, of course, but eventually I'm sure you will find someone like you here), get to know the frequent commenters on the site, and hear some financial wisdom/challenges from people other than me.
If you're interested in contributing to this series, then drop me an email. The series seems to be very popular with readers and I need a steady stream of new ones to keep it going.
Also, please leave constructive comments, questions, and so forth. Simply telling someone what a mess they have, how they have made poor decisions, and so forth is not helpful. There is a way to say, "That was a mistake, but here's what you can do to correct it" that both acknowledges the problem and offers a solution. It's this sort of feedback that this series is intended to solicit.
Next in the series is FMF reader PI. He answered my questions (in red below) as follows:
Please tell us a bit about yourself.
I am 38 yr old male in a happy marriage with 36 yr old wife & 7 yr old son. I work in a small IT outsourcing firm in India handling multiple responsibilities, mostly reporting to #1 or #2. We live in a tier-2 city, which allows us a decent work-life balance & helps reduce 'aspirational' expenses to a great extent.
Describe your financial situation (who works in your family, how your income is (general), how your expenses are, etc.).
I am the primary earning member. I have an annual pay of about 20500 USD, with a profit sharing option that gave about 9000 USD last year. My pay is structured to ensure maximum contribution to provident fund (tax deduction at entry, tax free growth, tax free withdrawal at retirement), such that take home pay is around 1200 per month.
My wife works as a part-time teacher at my son's school & gets about 100 USD per month, enough to cover their transport expenses. Next year, she'll join full-time, which would result in some reduction in school fees and an expected income of about 300 USD per month.
We have an apartment in our city (bought it without a loan), where my retired parents reside. We live in a rental apartment nearby paying about 250 USD per month. Our house is valued at about 100,000 USD, but I see that as a sunk cost & do not include it in my assets.
My sister with 2 kids moved in with my parents after her husband's business went sour. She works here, while he is working in another city. We are providing lifeline support to her by way of food & shelter.
Our prorated monthly expenses are:
I hit the ESOP lottery in my previous job & thus managed to create a decent cushion, allowing me the choice of accepting a lesser paying but more enjoyable work life.
My current assets (including those in the name of wife & son) amount to around 525,000 USD, spread across equity/debt, locked/liquid, public/private options.
What are the current financial issues you're facing (saving, paying off debt, etc.)?
As of now we do not have any debt & have enough liquid savings to tide over any potential crisis in near-term.
Long term concerns are related to growing the asset base in a way that allows for adequate security of inflation-adjusted principal for perpetuity.
Our son is diagnosed with ASD, but developing fine in terms of intelligence, though lagging in social skills, despite significant improvement over last few years. We would like to be in a position to provide him basic support in case things do not work out financially well for him in future.
Writing a will has been put off for quite some time, mainly because of lack of expertise around on how to word the transfer of our son's custody to my wife's brother if neither of us are around.
I am most likely to buy a new car within this year (previous one is almost 10 yrs old), but am struggling to choose between something I need (small hatchback for 5500 usd) v/s something I want (a luxury sedan for 40000 usd).
As we do not have credible insurance options, we are mostly self-insured, which could hit our savings hard if multiple failures occur.
A major part of our net worth is still tied up in my previous employer's stock, but I'm unable to find the courage & rationale to diversify effectively.
My wife is extremely reluctant to take up basic understanding of our financial situation or manage finances besides paying the regular household expenses.
My parents have adequate assets, but if they do something stupid & get duped by my sister & her husband, I will need to handle that contingency.
What are your plans for the future (retire early, build your career, etc.)?
I would like to retire by 45. As of now, the withdrawal rates in terms of growth & inflation seems to be in favor, but I'm not able to have enough guts to take a firm decision.
I would like to work with my wife to showcase her innovative teaching capabilities using the online medium, so that might be an area to work upon after retirement.
I would like to put more effort into developing my son's potential, with an aim of overcoming his current challenges to help him become an independent adult.
What's your best piece(s) of financial advice and/or your general philosophy on personal finances?
Just say NO to debt, not matter how bad the situation looks.
If it is not related to basic needs of food, clothing & shelter, it can always wait.
Do not get swayed by the tax benefits of housing loans - always do your own math.
If you're interested in contributing to this series, then drop me an email. The series seems to be very popular with readers and I need a steady stream of new ones to keep it going.
Also, please leave constructive comments, questions, and so forth. Simply telling someone what a mess they have, how they have made poor decisions, and so forth is not helpful. There is a way to say, "That was a mistake, but here's what you can do to correct it" that both acknowledges the problem and offers a solution. It's this sort of feedback that this series is intended to solicit.
Next in the series is FMF reader PI. He answered my questions (in red below) as follows:
Please tell us a bit about yourself.
I am 38 yr old male in a happy marriage with 36 yr old wife & 7 yr old son. I work in a small IT outsourcing firm in India handling multiple responsibilities, mostly reporting to #1 or #2. We live in a tier-2 city, which allows us a decent work-life balance & helps reduce 'aspirational' expenses to a great extent.
Describe your financial situation (who works in your family, how your income is (general), how your expenses are, etc.).
I am the primary earning member. I have an annual pay of about 20500 USD, with a profit sharing option that gave about 9000 USD last year. My pay is structured to ensure maximum contribution to provident fund (tax deduction at entry, tax free growth, tax free withdrawal at retirement), such that take home pay is around 1200 per month.
My wife works as a part-time teacher at my son's school & gets about 100 USD per month, enough to cover their transport expenses. Next year, she'll join full-time, which would result in some reduction in school fees and an expected income of about 300 USD per month.
We have an apartment in our city (bought it without a loan), where my retired parents reside. We live in a rental apartment nearby paying about 250 USD per month. Our house is valued at about 100,000 USD, but I see that as a sunk cost & do not include it in my assets.
My sister with 2 kids moved in with my parents after her husband's business went sour. She works here, while he is working in another city. We are providing lifeline support to her by way of food & shelter.
Our prorated monthly expenses are:
- Rent: 250 USD
- School: 60 USD
- Car: 100 USD
- Groceries: 150 USD
- Maid service: 30 USD
- Eating Out: 25 USD
- Vacation Travel (twice a year): 125 USD
- Parents' Expenses: 275 USD
- Other Shopping: 100 USD
I hit the ESOP lottery in my previous job & thus managed to create a decent cushion, allowing me the choice of accepting a lesser paying but more enjoyable work life.
My current assets (including those in the name of wife & son) amount to around 525,000 USD, spread across equity/debt, locked/liquid, public/private options.
What are the current financial issues you're facing (saving, paying off debt, etc.)?
As of now we do not have any debt & have enough liquid savings to tide over any potential crisis in near-term.
Long term concerns are related to growing the asset base in a way that allows for adequate security of inflation-adjusted principal for perpetuity.
Our son is diagnosed with ASD, but developing fine in terms of intelligence, though lagging in social skills, despite significant improvement over last few years. We would like to be in a position to provide him basic support in case things do not work out financially well for him in future.
Writing a will has been put off for quite some time, mainly because of lack of expertise around on how to word the transfer of our son's custody to my wife's brother if neither of us are around.
I am most likely to buy a new car within this year (previous one is almost 10 yrs old), but am struggling to choose between something I need (small hatchback for 5500 usd) v/s something I want (a luxury sedan for 40000 usd).
As we do not have credible insurance options, we are mostly self-insured, which could hit our savings hard if multiple failures occur.
A major part of our net worth is still tied up in my previous employer's stock, but I'm unable to find the courage & rationale to diversify effectively.
My wife is extremely reluctant to take up basic understanding of our financial situation or manage finances besides paying the regular household expenses.
My parents have adequate assets, but if they do something stupid & get duped by my sister & her husband, I will need to handle that contingency.
What are your plans for the future (retire early, build your career, etc.)?
I would like to retire by 45. As of now, the withdrawal rates in terms of growth & inflation seems to be in favor, but I'm not able to have enough guts to take a firm decision.
I would like to work with my wife to showcase her innovative teaching capabilities using the online medium, so that might be an area to work upon after retirement.
I would like to put more effort into developing my son's potential, with an aim of overcoming his current challenges to help him become an independent adult.
What's your best piece(s) of financial advice and/or your general philosophy on personal finances?
Just say NO to debt, not matter how bad the situation looks.
If it is not related to basic needs of food, clothing & shelter, it can always wait.
Do not get swayed by the tax benefits of housing loans - always do your own math.

Wow. Paid for house, 525K, and can live off of ~24K year (much less without rental, though obviously no need to kick parents out of home ;-).
If you diversify that company stock (single company stocks lose >90% value all the time, the S&P 500 does not) and don't get into $40K vehicle lifestyle, you're pretty much FI now. Don't kid yourself if you do get the $40K car, it'll cost you a lot more than $40K, you've inflated your lifestyle and that will become a necessity from then on. But its easy for me to preach there, I don't care for cars beyond one that runs, dining out/entertainment/travel is my soft spot...
Instead of thinking retirement at 45, maybe start moving toward fewer hours sooner (IT consulting?) and doing that for longer. Though it sounds like you've already made a move in that direction with work/life balance, and if you really like your job its hard to beat that...
You rock
Posted by: Steve | January 31, 2013 at 06:53 AM
Maybe I missed this, but how did you accumulate $500K USD on your salary for a thirty-something?
Posted by: Mark | January 31, 2013 at 08:38 AM
Sounds like you're in great shape. I don't understand how though, as Mark said. I can't imagine buying a car that's more than 1 year's salary (including profit sharing!). That would not seem to be a good decision, regardless of assets. Unfortunate that there's no credible health insurance options, it seems like that's a large risk. I'm surprised you have a maid when your wife only works part-time. What about life insurance to take care of your family if something should happen to you?
Posted by: Paul | January 31, 2013 at 08:54 AM
At a 4% safe withdrawl rate, you have more than enough money to sustain your current lifestyle for the rest of your life without working. Diversify your investments and spend your time as you like, working or not. And don't give in to the hedonic treadmill of lifestyle inflation.
Posted by: Greg | January 31, 2013 at 09:29 AM
Responses from PI...
@Steve:
I have been planning to get rid of the entire stock & move to an index fund, but the problem is that the company is one of the better managed ones & very shareholder-centric, which is why the decision is being deferred. But I have to act...
I agree that $40K car is a 'want' and I don't think I would enjoy the associated lifestyle expenses. I've started looking out for $10K car that can handle a larger extended family OR spend $1K on my old car to keep it mobile for next 3-5 years.
I have not thought about the part-time work option, will explore that over the next decade.
Thanks for your kind words & helpful suggestions.
@Mark:
As I mentioned "I hit the ESOP lottery in my previous job" - I think I skimmed a net worth to the tune of 250K$ from that & a decent stock appreciation & avoiding a high-spending lifestyle (thanks to my wife) made up the rest...
I also enjoyed a stint abroad, but I don't think I had much savings (besides buying a car for cash) to show for that...
@Paul:
Unfortunately, Cars are expensive where I live, due to taxes & duties. I can see the stupidity staring at my face when you put it in context of my salary :)
Wife works because she loves to teach - I had to convince her to ask for a token amount instead of doing for free!!!
I think the maid expense might continue even if she stops working, mainly because it is part-time & affordable.
I'm sorry I missed the life insurance part: I had taken an insurance of about 60K$ after marriage & added 40K$ after we had a child. Currently they might seem moot, but I don't mind continuing as the expense is not major. In general, I think the assets should be able to take care of my wife & son in case of any eventuality.
Posted by: Param | January 31, 2013 at 09:33 AM
PI stated that he hit the "ESOP lottery" and a major part of his net worth is in his former company's stock, which allowed him to take his current lower paying job.
Posted by: minimalist | January 31, 2013 at 09:34 AM
PI, a $525k net worth + 100k house value (which should be included in assets unless your parents are immortal) at age 38 is incredible for India. In fact, it's higher than the average American. I would sell at least some of the company stock and diversify risk by investing in stock/bond index funds. An expensive car comes with expensive maintenance and insurance, but you also don't have to buy the cheapest car. Go for something in the middle (~$18k) to balance your wants/needs.
Posted by: minimalist | January 31, 2013 at 09:39 AM
PI, I can understand about the impact of inflation in India,being an Indian myself :)( though currently residing abroad). Go for the time tested options , land and equity:)..Do let me know if you need any specific piece of advice.
PS:Please make sure you have a will ready , I have seen far too many cases where families have broken up due to lack of a will.
Posted by: NM | January 31, 2013 at 09:41 AM
@Mark He made a bucketload of money off his previous employer's stock.
@PI Please diversify! That's the only hole in your armor that I can see. If I were you, I'd sell all your previous employer's stock in favor of broad indices ASAP. You have nearly enough capital to live off investment income already. By 45, you'll be completely made. Don't take the risk that your former bosses will ruin it.
Posted by: 08graduate | January 31, 2013 at 09:42 AM
PI- my advice is consider taking 30 - 50% of the single stock and put that into a basket of a few other things (gold, other stocks, bonds, etc) - this will help diversify what you have since it is such a high multiple of your expenses.
You are doing awesome, by global standards.
-Mike
Posted by: Mike Hunt | January 31, 2013 at 10:38 AM
Your monthly expense looks great. Nice job keeping that down. I agree with everyone else and you should move some of that money in the single stock and diversify it. People have emotional attachment to their employer and hesitate to sell the stock. I sold my previous employer's stock last year and I'm very happy I did.
You are doing great!
Posted by: retirebyforty | January 31, 2013 at 11:31 AM
I assume that ESOP = employee stock ownership plan ?
Or is it stock options?
Either way from the context its clear that Pi benefited greatly from growth of an employer stock program and thats a large % of his net worth.
Posted by: jim | January 31, 2013 at 12:40 PM
Pi is doing very well. I would absolutely work on diversifying the stock assets. You can do it a little bit at a time to ease yourself into it. Maybe sell of 10% a month over the next 10 months or something like that.
Posted by: jim | January 31, 2013 at 12:43 PM
Yes, PI is going great. PI, if you can't bring yourself to sell the company stock all at once, do it little by little. You really should sell all or most of it. Just do it a little at a time so it won't seem so drastic.
Posted by: mysticaltyger | January 31, 2013 at 06:49 PM
I salute you for keeping your expenses down. It's really kind of hard to do that when you start, but as they It'll get easier when you're used to it and the practices have been part of your system... I like your term 'diversify' it is better/best when you have more than one source of income.
Posted by: Armando | January 31, 2013 at 08:28 PM
@Pi
I believe that your wife would find this website very interesting.
Khan Academy
www.khanacademy.org
The originator of this online system for teaching students various hard to grasp concepts (Salman Khan, a graduate of MIT and Harvard) has made a name for himself. A few of the most progressive schools in Silicon Valley have set up dedicated classrooms where the teacher and each student work with this innovative system on their own classroom computers and have had great success. Some while back the originator received a suprise phone call from non other than Bill Gates who invited him to his home in Seattle to learn more about the method and has now become big promoter of the method.
Posted by: Old Limey | January 31, 2013 at 08:32 PM
Dear PI, commendable. One more thing I would like to add, all the figures are to be multiplied by a factor of 3.5 if Purchasing power parity is considered. I think it should be considered as $1 USA is equivalent to $3.5 worth when you spend it in India.
Hats off to you for keeping the costs low. And you rightly said, the cars are very expensive in India. A basic hatchback costs around $8000.00 and if Purchasing power parity is considered its cost is equivalent to $25k plus. Gas too is quite expensive, its $5.15 a gallon (currency conversion) and $18 a gallon (Purchasing power parity)
Posted by: Himanshu | February 01, 2013 at 05:45 AM
Responses from PI...
@Greg:
thanks for the optimistic note. trouble is that there are no reliable studies on safe withdrawal rates relevant for retiring at 40-45 age group. i would like a setup where the assets are to a level such that withdrawal is inflation protected for enernity :)
@minimalist:
thanks for the thumbs up. the reason i'm excluding the house in net worth is that we'll end up taking over that house at one point in future (i do not have plans to add more real estate to my list). i have already sold a significant part of the previous employer stock (initially to buy the remaining options, then to diversify my investments, later on to avoid taking loan on the house). over time, it has gone down from 90% of my net worth to 45% of my net worth & i intend to reduce it to around 15% over next few years. i'm inclining towards a 10K$ budget for the car, after sanity was knocked into me by Paul.
@NM:
thanks for your advice. you are right - an unstable inflation rate does render many of the withdrawal rate calculators meaningless. i have a significant portion of assets in equity segment, however, i have tried to stay away from using 'land' as an investment option, primarily due to the fact that it is very difficult to diversify & it also ties up too much of one's net worth in one go. i am inclined to get a will done without the child's custody part & later revise it when i get the right set of professionals to assist.
@08graduate:
thanks for your advice. i have been diversifying out of the previous employer stock over these years, but yet to reach an optimal level (10-15% of net worth). i like the thought of not letting earlier bosses have a greater influence on my life than current or future bosses :)
@Mike:
thanks, i have already pruned the holdings in previous employer stock to a great extent, but 'miles to go before i sleep'. thanks for your thumbs up!
@retirebyforty:
thanks for the advice. i intend to continue acting upon on it till risk is low enough.
@jim:
i meant stock options. i had to exercise the options by purchasing the stock on payment of pre-determined rates. i think it was sheer luck that i managed to increase the net worth without putting my money at stake, by rolling over the profits from each set to buy the next set...
@mysticaltyger:
point taken. i have been selling gradually whenever markets are euphoric, will continue to do so.
@Armando:
thanks for the thumbs up!
@Old Limey:
thanks for the tip. i had assumed it was acamedic in nature, but i do see some videos that would make an impact.
Posted by: Param | February 01, 2013 at 05:46 AM
Wow, FMF blog goes global, someone from India actually reads and contributes to it. Interesting. I had also hit the ESOP lottery when working for Satyam. The stock appreciated to giddy levels. Like a fool I held on to it dreaming even bigger levels. Promptly over a couple of weeks, the stock crashes thanks to the CEO's revelation of corruption and my big dreams vanish! Alas, if I had only sold it in time and/or diversified. Anyway, good luck to you.
Posted by: AKS | February 02, 2013 at 11:38 AM
Wow- fascinating to read an entry from India. Thanks to FMF for sharing this, and for PI for writing it up.
To PI- congratulations on your success! You have created a strong position for yourself and you have a shot at preserving it. You stated that you were seeking a rationale for diversifying your stock holdings from your previous employer; here it is- you are trying to self-insure.
Read up on the volatility of single stocks versus larger diversified portfolios, and you will see why that large investment in your former employer is the biggest threat to your family's continued financial health.
I recommend moving 25% at a time if the idea of doing it all at once seems uncomfortable. If you want, leave 5-10% remaining in that one stock, but get the rest of the money out into broader indexes or a more diversified portfolio. But remember- you've seen tremendous gains with this one employer. What's the likelihood history will repeat itself? Lock in the gains by selling and diversify.
Posted by: PJinNC | February 03, 2013 at 09:12 AM
Responses from PI...
@Himanshu: Thanks for the thumbs up! I had a different notion about PPP, in effect I thought a factor of 5 was reasonable a decade ago, but inflation does seem to creep in steadily...
@AKS: I think the blog has global relevance because the basics of finance preached by FMF (spend less than you earn) holds good across the globe...
@PJinNC: Thanks for the encouragement. I have already dissolved almost 50% of the previous employer stock. Need to work out a firm plan to reduce it to 10% or so.
@FMF: Thanks for the wonderful opportunity & thanks to your readers for their thoughtful comments.
My key takeaways are:
- Come up with a plan to reduce single stock holding to 0% (or at least 10%) within 1 yr & stick to it.
- Decide to go for a car in 10K$ range to avoid inflating my lifestyle expenses
- Not be worried about my kid's condition as a potential financial issue (I'm glad no one noted that as an area of concern)
Posted by: Param | February 04, 2013 at 08:39 AM