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118 posts categorized "Spend Less than You Earn"

January 03, 2009

How to Live on $44k Per Year (Almost) Debt Free

Check out this piece on a family who lives (almost) debt free on $44,000 a year. A few highlights:

  • The family’s total Christmas shopping bill this year was $90 for 27 gifts.

  • Breaking down their budget to 19 categories, they paid off their first house in nine years on an average income of $33,000 a year. Their second home, which they estimate to be worth more than $700,000, was purchased for more than $200,000 and is almost paid off.

  • They plan every meal before going to the grocery store, building their menu around specials and coupons. The monthly bill to feed a family of seven is $350.

FYI, they also have a blog.

A few comments:

1. I guess $40k is all you need to be happy after all.

2. These people have learned the secret -- you don't need "just a little more" to make ends meet.

3. Funny how this family of seven can make it on only a fraction of what others can't make it on.

December 29, 2008

How to and How Not to Handle Lottery Winnings

This article tells the story of two friends who won a lottery in 2005. They each won $3.7 million (not a fortune, but nothing to sneeze at either) and went their separate ways (for the most part.) One of the guys, Aristeo Robelin, has managed his money wisely. The details:

With most of his winnings reserved for his children, Robelin says he lives on $80,000 per year.

Soon after he picked up his check from the state lottery office in Lansing, Robelin quit his job installing windows. He avoided the spending sprees and extravagant gifts for family and friends that befall many lottery winners and estimates he has more than $2 million remaining.

"I know the value of a dollar," Robelin says. "It's not like I worked hard for it, but it's mine."

In other words, he's living within his means and making his winnings last a good long time. Sure, he's not living the high-life, but $80k per year is a decent amount to live on -- and he's not even touching the $2 million he has in the bank ($2 million at 5% a year is $100k -- and he's spending below that amount.) Good for him!

On the other hand, his buddy, Keith Bryce, isn't doing as well:

Since Bryce won the Mega Millions lottery three years ago, he has clashed with family, spent close to $3 million and isn't far from the poorhouse - a place he assumed he'd never visit again.

In the first 30 days after hitting the jackpot - which brought him $3.7 million - Bryce dished out at least $1 million.

He has stopped the $100 tips for Applebee's waitresses, drunken, late-night check writing and footing the bill for his three adult children.

Facing life as a thousand-aire at 47, Keith Bryce is back installing windows for his brothers' company, the same part-time job he worked before winning.

''When you don't have any money to begin with,'' his sister Kay Popp says, ''I wouldn't wish (winning the lottery) on anybody.''

Disagreements over money have divided the Bryce family.

The piece goes on about bad decision after bad decision this guy made. Now he's in bad shape physically, his finances are wrecked, and his relationships with various family members are in ruin.

It was interesting to read the contrasts about these two guys. One managed his money the way most lottery winners manage their money -- like $3.7 million would last forever even at a high rate of spending. Now, he's paying for those decisions. The other, even though he had no extra financial education or experience, managed his money very wisely, and if he keeps it up, he'll be set for life. What a contrast!

Looked at from a bigger perspective, these two guys represent two groups of people (millions in total) across the country. One group spends more than they earn and end up in tough financial shape. The other group manages what they have wisely and does well in almost any financial climate. Hopefully, you're a member of the latter group.

December 12, 2008

The Right and Wrong Way to Stay Wealthy

The wrong way to stay wealthy: spend more than your huge salary. An example:

Rod Blagojevich is the third-highest-paid governor in the country, but you wouldn't know it from conversations recorded by federal authorities.

He is heard on six weeks of recordings saying he is "struggling" financially, even though he makes $177,412 a year and his household income has averaged $344,000 annually for the past five years. He allegedly says he feels he is "stuck" as governor and imagines making as much as $300,000 as the head of a group pushing organized labor's agenda or a not-for-profit organization.

Blagojevich's salary as governor trails only California and New York among 55 states and territories, according to the Council of State Governments. It's 40 percent higher than the $124,000 average gubernatorial salary.
 
And with his wife Patricia's income in real estate, which federal authorities also have been investigating, the Blagojeviches have averaged $344,000 in income since he took office. It topped $375,000 in 2003 but fell as low as $220,000 in 2007, according to federal tax returns.

Ok, so the guy makes a very, very good salary (especially once his wife's earning are added in), and yet he's "struggling" financially. How does this happen?

On the other hand, here's a piece I found amusing -- it's about how even celebrities love a bargain. Sure, some of the suggestions are still expensive by the standards many of us have, but when a celebrity can afford (and is expected to wear) a $2,000 dress, it's nice to see some of them "only" spending $70. ;-)

December 11, 2008

Even the Mega-Rich Need Pawn Shops These Days

Check out this NPR piece about a pawn shop in Beverly Hills. The highlights:

The Beverly Loan Co. is...an upscale pawn shop in one of the nation's priciest ZIP codes. The fine items for sale today are remnants of tough times for the well-heeled. Either sold outright for quick cash or used as collateral on loans that went unpaid.

"Never before have we seen so many white-collar customers — doctors, lawyers, accountants, businessmen and women — getting $50,000-plus loans," says Tabach-Bank. "Normally these are people with great credit who could go into a bank and get the big loans, but that's not the case anymore."

A few thoughts:

1. Tough times for everyone -- even those with a good amount of wealth.

2. See, I told you that no matter how much you make, you can spend it all.

3. Why does someone with a huge income (presumably) need a $50,000 loan anyway? Shouldn't they have a decent surplus on a month-to-month basis not to mention a decent emergency fund?

More Examples of the Wealthy Over-Spending

Here are a couple more examples that again demonstrate you can get into financial trouble no matter how much money you earn. Yep, even high-income earners can spend it all -- and more! We'll start with details on an ex-Fugee:

Proving that foreclosures spare no one, a Miami Beach property owned by hip-hopper Wyclef Jean is about to be auctioned on the proverbial courthouse steps, according to court records.

The property stayed nearly abandoned for two years as it racked up $6,200 in fines from the city of Miami Beach.

Then the $900,000 construction on a property appraised at $1.4 million stopped when Jean and his partners couldn’t come up with $177,913 to finish.

And then there's an American Idol Winner:

"American Idol" winner Fantasia Barrino is again finding that, like the title of her autobiography, life is not a fairy tale.

Court documents obtained Tuesday show one of Barrino's houses in Charlotte is up for auction after a company said Barrino failed to repay money it loaned her to cover her taxes in 2006.

The Mecklenburg County Sheriff's Office is scheduled to sell the home, valued at $1.1 million, in January. The home isn't in foreclosure, but rather is being used to compensate the company that loaned Barrino money to cover taxes.

Add these two to my ever-growing list of famous/high-income people who are facing financial troubles.

December 03, 2008

Three Costs to Keep Under Control

Vanguard has some thoughts/suggestions on how to keep your expenses under control. They focus on three areas -- investment costs, controlling overall spending, and learning to say "no". I'll cover all three along with FMF posts that provide additional information. Let's start with a summary of the impact investment costs can have on your overall return:

Obviously, none of us has the power to determine the direction of the markets. Even the savviest, most experienced investors can't predict what will happen on Wall Street from one day to the next. But you can control how much you pay to invest—and you may be surprised at how much investment costs can affect performance over the long run.

If a fund with a 1.0% expense ratio goes up 8% over the course of a year, you actually end up earning 7%. And if the fund loses money—an all-too-common occurrence recently—its expenses drag your net return even deeper into the red.

If you want more information on how costs impact your investment returns, check out Costs Matter If You Want to Maximize Investment Returns and How I Easily Improved My Investment Returns Using Vanguard Admiral Shares.

Next, they cover a topic near and dear to my heart:

Of course, if you're looking to put your financial house in order, keeping an eye on investment costs is just part of the solution. For many people, living within their means—spending less than they earn and saving diligently for the future—is a larger and more fundamental challenge.

"Many people simply aren't accustomed to living within a budget," said Mr. Ameriks. "But if you're looking to trim your expenses and find more to save, creating a detailed budget is a good way to start. Remember that saving simply means not spending."

Spending less than you earn is my best piece of financial advice. Certainly having a good budget is the first (or at least a key) step in keeping expenses lower than income.

Finally, here are their thoughts on saying "no":

The hardest part about saving money may be saying "no" when the urge to spend strikes. Getting your spending under control may mean more than just passing up the $4 cappuccino now and then. You may need to develop—and sustain—more financial self-discipline than you've ever known.

One word: discipline.

December 02, 2008

Another Case of a High Income Killed by Over-Spending

Check out the details of this couple who wrote to Bankrate for advice:

My husband and I have $80,000 in credit card debt in addition to a mortgage of $136,000. We are paying our bills on time but I do not see a way out of this if we continue making the minimum payments.

He makes $80,000 and I make $20,000. He refuses to make a budget because he knows we won't stick to it.

What are our options? When is bankruptcy an option?

Ok, so these people make $100k a year and they are MASSIVELY in debt. $80k in credit card debt? Are you kidding me? It's just another example that no matter how much you make, you have to spend less than that amount or you'll be going backwards financially. Want a few more examples of this fact? Then check out these posts:

And before you tell me that you make so little that you can't spend less than you earn, read this.

Bankrate tells this reader what you might expect -- that their spending is out of control, that they need to develop and stick to a budget, that they should close all their credit card accounts, and that they should start buying things only in cash. Whether or not they succeed will be determined by the amount of discipline they can apply to their personal finances. Based on their past history, that's going to be a tough road for them.

November 29, 2008

All You Need To Make Ends Meet: Just a Little More

Recently a reader left this comment to my post titled You Only Need $40,000 a Year to Be Happy:

We make $110,000 as a couple combined. I find this is just "getting by" and we have little debt and no children. I think at least $150,000 should be made by a couple to live comfortably - depending on where you live of course!

I'm sure some of you are thinking what I was: Really? $110k is "just getting by"?

This comment reminded me of a story I heard long ago. It goes something like this:

A financial counselor had an appointment with a couple at 9 am one day. They made $30,000 a year and told him all would be fine if they "just made an extra $100 each month."

At 10 am, another couple came in. They made $50,000 and were convinced that their finances would be great if they "just made an extra $200 each month."

At 11:30 am he met with a couple that made $85,000 per year. Their only problem was that they "just needed to make an extra $500 each month" to be on solid financial ground.

After lunch, he met with a couple that made $150,000 per year. They needed his advice on how to make an extra $1,000 per month -- then their finances would be fine.

We've been over and over this point before -- you have to control your spending and spend less than you earn no matter what you make. Otherwise, you're going backwards financially.

Most people think that just a little more income will solve all of their money problems. But they are mistaken. Why? Because they have no discipline and will spend any surplus (and more!) they get. They fall victim to the "just a little more" fallacy and, as a result, most never get their finances completely back on track.

November 25, 2008

The Way to Wealth

Our family just got done watching a PBS DVD series (checked out free from the library) on Benjamin Franklin. It was very, very interesting (and entertaining!) I'll be looking for more DVDs like this one in the future. But I digress.

One piece of information that was new to me was that Franklin wrote a piece called The Way to Wealth. where he dispenses some GREAT financial information -- most of which is still good advice for today. This article does a good job of summarizing Franklin's thoughts in The Way to Wealth and I thought I'd highlight a few of my favorites from it:

Early to bed, and early to rise, makes a man healthy, wealthy and wise.

One of the most familiar quotes ever from Franklin:

God helps them that help themselves.

So common that many people think this is actually a quote from the Bible.
 
A few more I liked but won't comment on:

  • Sloth, like rust, consumes faster than labor wears, while the used key is always bright
  • Dost thou love life, then do not squander time, for that’s the stuff life is made of
  • At the working man’s house hunger looks in, but dares not enter

And here's a part I REALLY liked:

If you would be wealthy, says he, in another almanac, think of saving as well as of getting: the Indies have not made Spain rich, because her outgoes are greater than her incomes. Away then with your expensive follies, and you will not have so much cause to complain of hard times, heavy taxes, and chargeable families; for, as Poor Dick says, "Women and wine, game and deceit, make the wealth small, and the wants great."

Kind of like what I said, huh? ;-)

Anyway, I was very impressed that someone who lived so long ago had such financial wisdom that it was valid information today. If you have the chance, take some time to read The Way to Wealth. Or, just keep reading Free Money Finance -- we cover the same topics. ;-)

October 08, 2008

How the Rich Go Broke

I just had to add this article on how to go broke like a rock star to my collection of "how rich people go broke" stories. Here are a few of the facts they start with:

  • Earlier this year, court documents revealed that Britney Spears doesn't save any of her $737,000 monthly income.
  • Last month, the New York Post reported that photographer Annie Leibovitz racked up some $715,000 in debt, despite her $2 million annual contract with Vanity Fair.
  • Wrestler/celeb Hulk Hogan spends almost twice as much as the $57,000 he earns each month.
  • Dustin Diamond, best known as Screech on the early 1990s series Saved by the Bell, faced foreclosure in 2006, despite royalties from reruns.
  • And more recently, Evander Holyfield, Ed McMahon, Jose Canséco, and Aretha Franklin ran into housing-related money problems of their own, despite being former heavyweight champion, Tonight Show personality, ex-slugger, and Queen of Soul, respectively.

So, how did these people with HUGE incomes get into financial trouble? It's very easy to explain -- they spend more than they earn:

"The most common mistake that celebrities, and especially professional athletes, make is ridiculously high spending in their newfound financial success," says Tim Maurer, director of financial planning for Financial Consulate, a Baltimore advisory firm.

This is why I always say that spending less than you earn is my best piece of financial advice. It's pretty basic and common sense (I often get "no kidding!" sorts of comments when I say it's a good piece of financial advice), but it seems difficult for many people to live by -- even the rich. As I like to say, you may make $1 million a year, but if you spend $1,000,001 per year, you're going backwards financially (though, admittedly, you're probably having a good time doing it.) ;-)

One more thought on how important spending less than you earn is -- it's one of only three steps you need to take to become rich.

September 18, 2008

The Test: Can You Handle a Troubled Economy?

Here's a piece on wealthy people (or at least relatively wealthy people) who are worried about the bad economy's negative impact on their finances. What caught my attention is the "test" the psychologist in the article gives her clients in order for them to see if they can have the confidence that they can handle a troubled economy. Her test:

She asks [clients] to calculate their monthly expenses — from Botox shots to country club fees — and their monthly income from work and investments. Then she has them cut 10 or 20 percent off the income figure. If they can still afford their lifestyle, she tells them that they have enough of a cushion to protect them from a troubled economy.

Ok, don't get me started on the Botox shots and the country club fees.

But her point seems to be a good one: if your income takes a decent hit, are you still able to manage your current expenses? If so, you should be fine -- especially since you could probably weather an even bigger financial hit because you could cut out some of your current expenses (like Botox shots and country club fees.)

Having a financial cushion is probably how these people got rich in the first place (it's step #1 in my three steps to becoming rich.) If you do the same, you'll get the same results they have -- you'll grow your net worth and have a surplus that will allow you to handle even a very difficult economy.

For more details on how to become wealthy, see Two Steps to Being a Millionaire and Retiring in Your 40's. If the whole "retire at 40" thing turns you off to the post's ideas, simply ignore the first part and concentrate on the tips to making more money and saving more money.

September 17, 2008

Loved This Comment

Alpha Consumer asked why celebrities get into money trouble and I simply loved the first comment made -- especially the last sentence

You can make a million a day, and spend a million and one dollar a day, and you are broke and in debt.

Priceless!

September 02, 2008

Another Case of Spending More than You Earn

Here's an interesting comment recently left here:

Thought this newspaper article was interesting. It is a great showing of living beyond you means (not presented that way). If you have the time to read any of the comments, you'll see the reason this family is broke (42K salary). She quit her job, they consider many luxuries to be necessities and so forth.  I think the old idea that you wanted to do better than your parents did is being taken to mean that you should start off better than your parents are now. When did this change? The American Dream is supposed to be about the chance to improve you life, but that usually takes work and determination, it is not a forgone conclusion!

It's a "fascinating" read from the standpoint that the author tried to make it sound as if the couple was destitute because they didn't make enough money. But the real problem seems to be as the reader above comments -- they want the "American dream" and they want it now! As such, they took a mortgage that they (now) admit they probably couldn't afford. Somehow, this gets glossed over in a couple lines as the story winds on about how unfortunate and down-trodden they are -- and how the system seems to be working against people in similar situations. Obviously, the writer has more of an agenda than simply reporting the facts.

At the time of this writing, the article has 1,003 comments! Holy cow! As you can imagine, they break into two groups -- one talking about how hard it is to live these day with a small income and the other feeling no pity for a couple making $42k that seems like they got themselves into trouble. Here are a couple comments I felt summarized the situation accurately. We'll start with this one:

The husband makes $3500 per month, plus overtime pay that probably adds an additional $1000 per month, has Teamster health insurance, and the wife sits home not working......And we are supposed to feel sorry for them 'cause they can't pay their gas bill? I don't think so. It sounds to me like they are in desperate need of help in money management more than anything else.

And the second:

Here's the key sentence:

"They bought into the American Dream, whether they could afford it or not."

The "American Dream" is NOT a house in the suburbs, two cars, a bass boat, and a cabin by the lake. The American Dream is that you have the liberty to make of your life whatever you can make of it. You are not bound by caste, or ancestry, or religion. You can work for any employer who will hire you, at any job for which you are qualified. You can live in any house, in any neighborhood you choose, provided you can afford it. You can carve out your own destiny by your own sweat and the labor of your own two hands. THAT is the American Dream.

Yes, life is tough for a family on $42,000 a year, apparently. But there is no injustice here.

Short summary, they simply spent more than they earned and now they're paying for it. It's that simple. The math doesn't lie. And there are plenty of examples on both sides of them -- people who made a lot less and thrived and people who made a lot more and got into deep financial trouble.

This is why spending less than you earn is the foundational financial principle -- if you don't get it right, the whole house of cards quickly collapses. It's also why I call this my best piece of financial advice and why I list it as the first step to getting rich.

August 29, 2008

Two Steps to Being a Millionaire and Retiring in Your 40's

Here's a Money magazine article on a pair of 27-year-olds who are well on their way to being millionaires (current net worth of $516k) and to retiring when they hit 40. As I read the piece, I was struck at the simplicity of how they were growing their net worths -- it was just two simple steps. They are:

Step #1 -- Earn a good income. From the article:

At age 27, John and Gina already earn a combined $174,000 a year.

Step #2 -- Spend less than they earn (significantly less). From the article:

John and Gina...save half of what they make.

Do either of these steps sound at all familiar to any FMF readers out there? ;-)

They should sound familiar -- I write about them all the time. I've even listed what I consider to be the three steps you need to take to become rich.

I don't really have much more to say on this topic (haven't I said enough already?), but I thought I would list some of my key posts out there for those of you who would like to make more money, spend less money, or both.

Some posts on how to make more money:

  • Making Money 2008 -- 58 different money making posts (scroll down to see them all) from 2008 alone.
  • Making Money pre-2008 -- 202 different money making posts (scroll down to see them all) from before 2008.

Some posts on how to save money:

  • Saving Money 2008 -- 162 different money saving posts (scroll down to see them all) from 2008 alone.
  • Saving Money 2007 -- 220 different money saving posts (scroll down to see them all) from 2007 alone.
  • Saving Money pre-2007 -- 519 different money saving posts (scroll down to see them all) from before 2007.

August 06, 2008

How to Go Bankrupt

I was listening to a podcast on my morning walk the other day when the speaker referred to an Ernest Hemingway quote about bankruptcy. Here it is:

"How did you go bankrupt?" "Two ways, gradually and then suddenly."

I was struck by the simplicity and truth in this statement. Here's my spin on it:

1. People start to go bankrupt slowly when they spend more than they earn. At first, they can keep up with the extra payments, increasing debt, juggling finances, etc., but eventually, the small spending starts to add up and puts increasing pressure on them. This is how they start to go bankrupt -- at a very gradual (maybe even unnoticeable) pace.

2. Then something "big” happens -- a layoff, a baby (forcing one parent to stay home), an accident, a bad loan (think housing), and so on. Suddenly, the family that was going bankrupt gradually is upside down in a BIG way. There's nothing that can be done (in their minds), so they go bankrupt.

To an outside observer, it might seem that these people went bankrupt very quickly due to a bad/expensive event in their lives. But the truth is that they had been going bankrupt for a long time. Their finances were getting progressively worse over time and they just needed a big push at the end to send them over the edge. Their actual bankruptcy may have started years and years prior to the actual event when they started the cycle of poor money management and excessive spending.

This is why I continually remind people that spending less than they earn is a must for financial success.

July 24, 2008

Five Signs that You're Living Beyond Your Means

As most of you know, I love to tell people that spending less than they earn is the key to financial success. Much of this blog is about that -- and how to get to the point where you have more and more surplus coming in to your finances.

That's why I like this Yahoo piece that lists five signs that you're living beyond your means. It serves as a good guide to keep us all aware of money moves that could derail our finances. Here are their thoughts along with some comments from me:

Sign No. 1 - Your Credit Score is Below 600

Not an issue for me, but having a good credit score is certainly a key part of good finances.

Sign No. 2 - You are Saving Less Than 5%

I currently save about 20% of my salary, though many FMF readers save much more. Good for you.

Sign No. 3 - Your Credit Card Balances are Rising

I'd change this to "you have credit card balances." Carrying any balance on a credit card is a BIG sign that you're spending more than you earn.

Sign No. 4 - More Than 28% of Income Goes To Your House

Taxes and maintenance are the only things I pay on our home since we haven't had a mortgage in over a decade. If we buy a new place, the longest we should have a mortgage is a couple years. But if we don't buy something this summer, it's likely we'll be able to pay cash for the new place outright as we'll have a few more months of saving ahead of us.

Sign No. 5 - Your Bills are Spiraling Out of Control

Uh, yeah. Of course.

So, how can you spend less than you earn (or widen the gap if you already are doing so)? Only two ways -- spend less or earn more.

July 23, 2008

An Extreme Example of Spending Less than You Earn

When I suggest that people should spend less than they earn as a first step to being financially successful, I often get comments along the lines of "I make so little, it's IMPOSSIBLE to spend less than I earn." Really? Check out this piece/example from the BBC:

A bank in the Indian city of Calcutta has opened an account for a beggar who deposited 91kg (200lb) of coins in one of the bank's branches.

Laxmi Das says she has been saving the coins since she started begging more than 40 years ago as a child disabled by an attack of polio.

"I saved for the days when I cannot beg," she told the BBC. "I knew one day I would grow old and have diseases, so I was prudent and saved for my pension."

A few more key quotes:

Ms Das says that she has been prudent and saved

"Her efforts show that you can save even if you earn a pittance."

Mr Haldar said Ms Das now has a bank account and those who want to help her can send in account payee cheques in her name to his bank branch.

Ms Das began begging aged 16 and saved coins in iron buckets at her home in a shanty town near the crossing.

Think about this example the next time you want to complain that you can't keep your spending below what you earn!

And if this example isn't enough, here are some more people who saved a good amount despite making very little:

And on the other hand, here are several pieces on what happens if you make a fortune but spend more than what you make.

June 29, 2008

Become Wealthy by Living Below Your Means

For those of you new to Free Money Finance, I post on The Bible and Money every Sunday. Here's why.

While reading a commentary recently on the book of Proverbs, I found this Sumerian proverb:

Build like a lord, live like a slave! Build like a slave, live like a lord!

The Bible says the same thing in Proverbs 21:20:

In the house of the wise are stores of choice food and oil, but a foolish man devours all he has.

In other words, wise, rich people are the ones that spend less than they earn. In contrast, foolish people spend more than they earn.

And even if someone earns a great amount, if they spend more than this each year, they're going backwards financially. Examples of this include Ed McMahon, Michael Jackson and Evander Holyfield.

Seems like common sense to me? Didn't we all learn this in fourth-grade math?

June 13, 2008

Six Tips for Improving Your Finances

Slow Down Fast lists how to become wealthy by living within your means (my favorite piece of financial advice) but I think the piece is better named "six tips for improving your finances." His list includes:

1. Do away with the brand names.
2. Change where you shop.
3. Dine in.
4. Buy used.
5. Stay away from credit cards.
6. Learn to do without.

Here's my take on these:

1. For the most part, I follow this advice, though I do admit I like Nike athletic apparel. I buy it at an outlet store -- does that get me any brownie points? ;-)

2. We shop at thrift stores all the time. In fact, my wife just bought three name-brand pairs of shorts that looks absolutely new for $2.50 each at a thrift store. They would have cost her $30 or so at a department store.

3. A weakness of mine -- I love to eat out -- kept in check by my desire to save money (plus my wife hates to eat out -- not enough healthy choices for her.) On average, we MAY "eat out" once a week if you count getting a pizza at Costco as eating out.

4. See #2 above. That said, we don't buy cars used.

5. Certainly, if you can't control yourself, then don't have a card. I can control myself and I use my cards to earn cash back. Doing so, I earned almost $800 last year.

6. Not that you can't splurge now and then, but if you're life is one big splurge, you're in trouble.

June 11, 2008

Needs Versus Wants

Here's an email I recently received from a reader:

I was browsing the local Craigslist for a bike and came across this random ad. The text says:

"hi have for sale my Specialized Rockhopper Pro Disc 17" the color it's "MANGO", i have to sell it A.S.A.P because i need money for rent, you have to see it ,you will fall in love with it, come and see it and try it....click the link at the end for components and specifications, it has some upgrades as front disc 8", tires, Italian seat, peddals, carbon fiber handlebar(unused), no falls, no cracks, perfect conditions...let me know if you want to come and see it or drive it, i live in escondido ca 92025...will trade it for iphone, itouch, xbox360, ps3, wii....any of this toys plus diference in cash."

Since you always talk about spending less than you earn... I thought that this is a classic example of why so many Americans are finding it hard to make ends meet. Surely a guy who has to sell his prize bike to make rent can afford to go without the "toys" for a while.

;-)

June 06, 2008

Ed McMahon on Spending More than You Earn

I couldn't have scripted this first quote better myself.

As a follow-up to my post Wednesday about Ed McMahon's home foreclosure as well as this morning's piece on spending more than you earn even with a huge salary comes this piece from CNN. It's a Larry King interview with Ed McMahon where Ed is asked what happened to his finances. He's quoted as responding:

"Well, if you spend more money than you make, you know what happens. And it can happen. You know, a couple of divorces thrown in, a few things like that. And, you know, things happen. You want everything to be perfect, but that combination of the economy, I have a little injury, I have a situation. And it all came together."

Later in the interview Larry asks the following of Ed's wife, Pam:

"But, Pam, the assumption is that the McMahons are multimillionaires and multimillionaires -- how much behind are you, $644,000, right? That's what's reported? ... If you're a millionaire, shouldn't you be able to pay $644,000?"

Her response:

"I think over the years, you know, it's just a kind of a combination of maybe Ed working so hard and not kind of looking at proper management, which happens a lot. ... Because you're a celebrity, people think you have a lot more than you have. And you always want to take great care of all of your friends and your family and everybody, and you do. And you don't, and I think, you know, we didn't keep our eye on the ball. We made mistakes."

Let me translate for you:

  • Ed McMahon made a fortune in his career -- a ghastly sum that could have sustained a very large number of people.
  • He spent everything he made and then some. In fact, the amount he spent was well over (not just barely over) what he made. Yes, misfortune was part of the issue (the fall), but the rest of the problems were self-inflicted.

If he had managed his money correctly, he wouldn't even have to work -- he shouldn't have to given how much he made. It's mis-management plain and simple (by both him and his handlers.)

Now here's the kicker. Larry asks him why he's going public now. Ed's response:

"Well, I figured I wanted to, in a sense, speak for the million people you mentioned [facing foreclosure]. I heard that figure today and I just couldn't believe it. Anyway, the million people that now have foreclosure signs on their house, or nearby. And I just want to give them hope, give them optimism, give them some kind of guidance. Get the best corrective people you need around you. Keep working on it. Don't stop. There's a lot of people that are hard workers, did everything right, didn't do anything wrong, and all of a sudden, they're in this boat. And I speak for all of them, as far as I'm concerned."

Ok, let me be brief and to the point:

There is a set of people who are truly impacted by the housing situation because of no fault (or little fault) of their own. They bought within an affordable range, had reasonable expectation of paying off the loan, and then the world turned upside down on them. These people, I feel sorry for. But my guess is they are in the very small minority. And, this is NOT the group Ed is in.

The other set of people is one that bought too much house (more than they could afford), and now that they need to refinance, they're stuck. These are the people that are facing the problems resulting from poor financial planning and decisions. This is the group Ed is in. He's not in the "oh the market is so bad and it's the reason for my problems" group. His problems are his own doing. He simply spent more than he earned for too long and it's now caught up with him.

I still feel sorry for him -- he always seemed like a nice guy -- but let's be honest here, the problems are self-induced. And it's a whole lot easier for me to want to do something for a working family making $60,000 who bought a bit too much house than for a guy who made millions and lives in a mansion.

You MUST Control Your Spending

Here's another example of the fact that no matter how much you make, you have to spend less than that or you're going backwards financially. Today's piece is about ex-boxing champ Evander Holyfield who made hundreds of millions of dollars during his career:

Holyfield has likely made hundreds of millions of dollars during his 24-year boxing career, including a reported $34 million for his second bout with Tyson in 1997, the infamous “Bite Fight” that ended with Tyson being disqualified for gnawing off a chunk of Holyfield’s ear.

But somehow it wasn't enough. He spent more than he earned (which is hard to believe) and is now in deep financial trouble:

His $10 million estate in suburban Atlanta is under foreclosure, the mother of one of his children is suing for unpaid child support, and a Utah consulting company has gone to court claiming the boxer failed to pay back more than a half million dollars for landscaping.

He seems to be yet another example of boxers who simply can't control their spending:

Joe Louis kept fighting well past his prime trying to pay off a crushing tax debt. Sugar Ray Robinson admitted he was broke by the time his long career ended. Mike Tyson has squandered most of the vast fortune he accumulated during a career that included two memorable fights with Holyfield.

Not much to say here other than to reiterate the obvious -- no matter how much money you make, you must spend less than you earn. Otherwise, you're losing financial ground. This is why I list "spend less than you earn" as my best piece of financial advice.

And just so you don't think Holyfield and his boxing buddies are the only ones who can spend well above a decent income, check out these posts:

And to end this subject for today, The Spending Smart Philosophy: Controlling Spending is the Key to Building Wealth is a worthwhile read as well.

April 29, 2008

The Keys to Getting Rich

Here's a comments I love -- left on my post titled Inside The Millionaire Mind of Mush—How We Became Millionaires:

High income is not the key, though it certainly helps. Saving a significant portion of your income, investing it wisely, spending less than you earn and having a plan are the keys.

My father-in-law is a lawyer in private practice, and is about 30 years older than I am. He is a good and kind man to his family, and very kind to me. I am certain that if properly focused, his income could be 1.5 to 2 times mine, very easily. Yet at age 33, I easily have 5-8 times the amount of savings he has available for retirement, and my retirement savings are in the five-figure range, not six. Why?

  • He has never met a splurge he could pass up to put away dollars for tomorrow.
  • He does not invest.
  • He does not try to learn new ways to spend and save to be more efficient with his money. If it requires a new habit, or behavior change, he's not interested. I could run his office for half the money he spends running it, but he would have to learn new ways of doing things, which he simply doesn't want to do.

His house currently has a broken window on the first floor- it's nothing but a screen, no glass. His monthly oil heating bills this winter were much higher than usual. Does he think to fix the glass and reduce the amount of heat escaping his house? No, but he does take spur-of-the-moment trips to cities on the East Coast.

At certain levels of poverty and lower-income earning, it is extremely hard, if not impossible to get out of the "poverty trap" even with courageous frugality and positive financial behaviors. But for others, like my father-in-law, the long march from paycheck-to-paycheck to comfortable financial security can be significantly influenced by personal behaviors.

Hard for me to argue with this!

April 22, 2008

The Key to Personal Finance Success

If I wasn't married, I think I'd go after this woman. Consider the following about/from her:

Crannell is an aficionado of Goodwill Industries shops. And she'll pass by the racks with $7 blue jeans and head for the bins where the jeans sell for $1.

Crannell likes yard sales, especially those where an entire neighborhood cooperates because there's a bigger selection. She shops at a local farmers market and sometimes makes vegetarian meals, partly because she believes they're healthy and partly to cut down on high-cost meat.

"Keeping track of where your money goes is the most important financial task you can undertake," she said. "It really doesn't matter what you make. It matters what you spend."

That last quote really is the bottom line: no matter what you make, you need to spend less than that amount to get ahead. And since most people have much more control over what they buy than what they earn, keeping a tight rein on your spending really is the foundation for a good financial plan.

And here are a couple posts to help you in spending less than you earn:

April 16, 2008

The Spending Smart Philosophy: Controlling Spending is the Key to Building Wealth

Here's an excerpt from Living Rich by Spending Smart: How to Get More of What You Really Want, a book that I LOVED. Even a die-hard saver like myself learned a ton from the book, and I recommend it to everyone that would like to be saving more money. The excerpt that follows details the philosophy of the book and is one that I can support whole-heartedly.

Spending Smart is the only way to get out of debt and build wealth. That’s a bold, but true, statement. It’s like calories are the key to a weight-loss diet. It doesn’t matter what the new diet fad is. A diet to lose weight only works if you burn more calories than you consume. Everything else is just window-dressing and hype.

In fact, controlling spending is far more important than the amount of your debt, which investments you choose or even how much you earn. For people in debt, it wouldn’t matter a bit if somebody graciously paid off all their credit cards or they got a huge bonus at work to pay off the balances. Before long, they’ll run up the card balance and be right back in serious debt because they didn’t fix the fundamental problem, spending too much money. Americans today don’t have a problem with debt. They have a problem with out-of-control spending. Debt is simply the result.

The truth is, you can’t out-earn dumb spending. Just ask all the multi-millionaire Hollywood celebrities, sports stars and lottery winners who ended up broke. Most people become wealthy and stay wealthy because they care as much about money going out as money coming in.

Spending Smart provides both the philosophy and the details to help you care about your spending too. If you already care, it will speed your trip to financial freedom and wealth.

The Truth about Getting Rich

The basic premise of wealth must be understood. It doesn’t matter whether you earn $20,000 a year or $200,000. The only thing that makes you wealthier is regularly spending less money than you make.

That was proven in the “The Millionaire Next Door,” a tremendous best-selling book that shattered myths about who America’s millionaires really are. In fact, millionaires are not highly educated people who inherit a lot of money and spend it on obscene luxuries and pampered lifestyles.

Instead, they are hard-working people who, among other common attributes, care about what things cost and getting good value for their money. In short, America’s real millionaires – not those who just look the part – care about their spending. And you should too.

I like to think the “Millionaire Next Door” proved the philosophy, and this book provides the details.

Spending Smart is not about freeing up a few bucks here and there, but literally thousands of dollars – which compounded over a lifetime is the difference between struggling and being rich.

If getting rich isn’t your goal, you still need to spend money smarter because money gives you options. You have options to quit a job and pursue lifelong dreams, options to give money to charitable causes that inspire you and, in general, options to pursue what makes you happy.

Spending money smarter will help your relationships and maybe even your sex life. Without the desperation and fear that comes with money problems, all the relationships in your life can be more enjoyable.

You need to control spending to build wealth. It’s the only way – outside of an inheritance, lottery win or some other windfall – you’ll ever accumulate enough money to make it work for you. That means getting money to start making its own money. For most people working normal jobs, there are not enough hours in a day to build wealth simply from working for a wage or salary. Instead, you should spend less and invest your money, whether in stocks, mutual funds, investment properties, your own business, whatever. All that matters is your money is making money while you sleep.

For most people, it’s the only way to get rich.

Learning to Spend Less

“Living below your means” is a simple and often-stated concept in personal finance. But what isn’t explained is how exactly to spend money smarter, so you have some left over.

Many personal finance experts advise you to “pay yourself first,” which is now a tired cliché for socking away money before you start paying your bills. But that only works if have enough self-control not to continue spending and simply throw the charges on a credit card. That leads to the illogical situation many Americans face – saving money in the bank at less than 5 percent interest at the same time they’re paying 18 percent interest on their credit cards. Their return on that “investment” is negative 13 percent.

Ultimately, it all comes down to spending.

Standard cost-cutting advice makes sense, such as eating out at restaurants less often and forgoing a fancy coffee every morning. But it’s not nearly enough to free up the thousands of dollars you need to make a difference in your life.

What you need are both overall strategies and specific ways to reduce spending. It’s stuff you could probably research and figure out for yourself, if only you had unlimited time and access to the nation’s leading experts. With those resources, you could investigate every alternative to buying expensive ink-jet cartridges, investigate whether extended warranties are a good deal and read books on how to buy insurance.

But you don’t have that time. So, you bought this book instead. With this book, you won’t have to figure out for yourself which contradictory tips are true about saving money with home heating and cooling, for example. This book will just tell you. It will say, flat out, “This is right. This is wrong.”

This book won’t give you dozens of dopey ideas on saving a few pennies here and there – no tips on making your own laundry detergent or reusing dryer lint.

We’ll cut to the chase and whack out the biggest offenders of wasteful spending and highlight the easiest cost cuts to make.

Spending Smart is Not About Deprivation

Spending Smart is not a “live cheap, die loaded” plan or some exercise in fiscal anorexia.

Diets don’t work if you’re constantly hungry. And a plan to cut spending won’t work if you have to say no to buying things you really want. The goal is to reallocate spending to satisfy all your needs and many of your wants.

You do that by plugging the leaks of wasteful spending, and forcing your dollars to go where you want them to. It’s about spending on purpose rather than by accident and habit.

Who cares which phone company is providing your dial tone? Switch to a lower-cost carrier and save hundreds of dollars per year. Insurance policies are generally the same. They guarantee a certain payout if bad things happen to you, a car accident, house fire, even death. Why would you pay more for one policy over another? And does a jar of sale-priced Skippy Peanut Butter taste any different than if you paid full price?

Life is full of spending choices, and making smarter decisions time after time adds up.

The average four-person household spends more than $62,000 a year, according to government statistics. Cutting spending by just 10 percent reaps a cool $6,200 a year, or $517 a month. That would go a long way toward paying off debt. Or, you could redirect that money into buying a nicer car or pay for a home improvement.

Or, if you started investing that money, you’d save more than $300,000 in cash in 20 years, assuming a modest 8 percent return.

That’s the power of not spending.

Why Cutting Spending Works

In the short term, not spending a buck beats earning a buck every time. Here’s why:

  • Magnitude. You keep 100 cents of an unspent dollar but maybe 60 to 75 cents of an earned one, after taxes, Social Security and the other deductions take their bite from your paycheck. Cutting out a $50-per-month cable TV bill is the same as a $30,000-a-year worker getting a year’s pay raise of 3.3 percent, or $1,000. Benjamin Franklin said, “A penny saved is a penny earned.” But that was before the era of income taxes. Today, a saved penny is worth far more than an earned one.
  • Speed. Cutting spending is faster. You can cancel an expense, such as your gym membership, and start saving money today. You will be instantly better off. But it takes a long time to change your income. It may be months before you can get a pay-raise at work, and overtime hours may be sporadically available. The only immediate thing you can do about income is to get a second job that starts this week. Or, as many Americans do, you can use fake income, such as a credit card that gives you an illusion that you have more cash. Of course, that just creates a crisis later on when the credit card bill arrives.
  • Control. You have more control over spending than income. You make dozens of spending decisions a day, from a morning mocha latte at Starbucks to whether you turn up the heat an extra degree in your home. However, your decisions about income are few on a daily basis, outside of resolving to get up and go to work so you aren’t fired.
  • Time well-spent. If you think you don't have time to reduce spending, convert the time you spend on cost-cutting to an hourly wage. A 2002 study at Virginia Tech University used students to comparison shop for various purchases. In one case, 16 minutes of comparing prices on the same model of color television saved $100. Converted to an hourly wage, that's $375 an hour. And if your total tax bite with Social Security amounts to 40 percent, it’s the same as earning $625 an hour, or $1.3 million a year. Using the same math, spending three minutes clipping and using $10 worth of coupons pays $333 an hour. Taking 10 minutes to mail in a $50 rebate on a new computer printer earns you $500 an hour.

For those who enjoy sports metaphors, spending is like defense. Ask a knowledgeable fan of any major sport to identify the most important factor in winning, and you should get the same answer. “Offense is more exciting, with the home runs, the touchdown passes, the slam dunks,” the fan will say. “But defense wins championships. It always has.”

And so it is with money. Earning, the other major component to money, is more exciting and sexier, like offense. But for average people, winning with money ultimately depends on spending, your defense. It always has.

It’s true that cutting costs is not a substitute for growing your income over the long term, but it allows you to get the most out of the income you have, whatever it is, today.

Spending Smart: A Proven Plan

Too many financial books are glad to tell you what to do with all your extra money, but how do you get that pile of cash in the first place? You spend your money smarter.

I know, because I’ve written more than 175 newspaper columns about spending money smarter. The columns appear in newspapers that together have millions of readers. Over the years, hundreds of readers have e-mailed and called to tell me how useful the tips were to them. Some gush about how easy it was to spend less money, all because they had the power of knowledge. Besides doling out advice in the newspaper column, I’ve also talked about Spending Smart on television, radio and in my Web log, or blog.

I’ve interviewed the money gurus, from Suze Orman and David Bach to Dave Ramsey and Jean Chatzky. I’ve talked with Thomas J. Stanley, whose book “Millionaire Next Door” changed our notions about the rich in America. And I’ve tapped the expertise of those who are not household names, but experts in their field, whether that’s about manufacturer’s coupons, emotional spending or auto insurance.

And I’ve put these principles and tips into action in my own home, freeing up money to spend on things my family really cares about.

This book is organized into chapters with sections, each easily finished in a short sitting. Sections are essentially independent. You can read them in any order you like, with no plot or running theme to remember.

And don’t be overwhelmed by the sheer volume of information and advice in this book. While it won’t nearly cover all areas of spending in your life, it does provide literally hundreds of actionable tips. You don’t need to implement all of the Spending Smart advice right away, but you do need to get started today.

April 15, 2008

Forest Solitaire

The following piece is by Andrew Vietze and is an excerpt from Get Satisfied: How Twenty People Like You Found the Satisfaction of Enough, one of MSN Money's top personal finance books that can change your life. It's from Simple Living America, the first national, nonprofit membership organization for the general public centered on simplicity.  Posting your own story or joining the organization (and even holding a house party to spread the word) is one path to the satisfaction of enough.

Was this osprey a sign? As I sat and watched it trace circles in the sky above my office, its wings wide and floating, I began to think so. This fish hawk has always been my favorite bird, instantly transporting me to my grandmother's big old saltwater farm where we've camped every summer for more than thirty years. The property is a long, fifty-acre peninsula, and as many as six ospreys at a time can be seen fishing in the tidal river that surrounds us as we gather at the Fourth of July. As a boy, I learned to mimic their high-pitched whistle while I ran around with my cousins. Because it's a family property far from any road, we could range at will, the kind of freedom adults rarely get to feel.

I couldn’t help but look up from my desk and watch this particular bird, flying in graceful arcs above our building. For much of the year he'd be there, crying his raptor cry, as if imploring me outside. I'd sit bound to my chair and stare longingly through the glass, remembering what it was like to run around without any walls, without anything overhead but the sky. The osprey did this for years, and eventually it forced my hand.

I quit.

The decision wasn’t an easy one. Was I being too selfish? Perhaps even irresponsible? Here I was, a married adult with a baby on the way and a mortgage to pay. But a miserable mortgage-bound soon-to-be father. I had a good job at a highly regarded magazine; in fact I'd recently been made managing editor, so the money was fine for small-town Maine, and I had a benefits package that would care for me and my new kid. It just wasn't enough, wasn't ever quite right. I'd done everything I could at the magazine after almost ten years, and I couldn't enter the building without my head dropping a bit.

The whole reason I wanted to become a writer in the first place was to live life as an adventure, to live outside the boxes—office buildings, societal requirements. To avoid the nine-to-five, the computer, the phone, the necktie (a colleague and I called it the Daily Noose). Each morning, though, I'd trudge upstairs to my desk and go through the paces while staring out the window. I didn't care about the money. Life was always more important than that.

So I quit.

I had done everything right since college, placing my Edward Abbey and Jack Kerouac fantasies to the rear in favor of paying off student loans. (There's no way Kerouac was an indentured servant to Columbia the way I was to Clark University.) I had a respectable, indeed, sought-after job. I had a nice old white clapboard house in a sweet river valley town and two cars in the driveway. And I'd finally paid off those loans.

So I quit.

As a child there were five things I wanted to be when I grew up, each equal to the others, each a certainty. I wanted to write. Fight fires. Play pro soccer. Be a rock star. And I'd done them all in some fashion. I'd written for a wide variety of magazines. I joined my local fire department and literally bled for it. I played men's league soccer and we were champs four years running at the Maine Sports Complex (O-30 league). I'd put out three records on which I sang or contributed guitar. There was only one thing I had yet to do.

So I quit.

And I became a park ranger. I traded my necktie for a badge, my office for a ranger station, my telephone for a two-way radio, my nine-to-five for a "ten-eight" at seven a.m. Now I not only watch birds—more often than not the loon, another personal favorite—but I live among them in a 200,000-acre park. Every morning I see the sun come up over Maine's highest mountain—some say the first rays to hit the entire country—and watch as it turns the face of my pond into blinding crystal. I see the woods shake off the night and come awake and the fish begin to jump in their great basin. I see campers rise and greet the day with the kind of excitement that only a day away from work in a beautiful setting brings.

The governor who gave these spectacular, storied lands to the State of Maine did so with the proviso that they must be kept forever wild. So not only do I not have to answer phones, there isn't one for miles. No computers, of course, because there's no electricity for miles either.

And I love it. I love my badge. I love my truck. I love my duty station. I love hiking the trails. I love being outside every day no matter the weather. Sharing porch time with the regulars among my campers. Paddling my canoe on the pond at dusk. Working with my hands. Learning to build cabins, reading the landscape and the seasons, joking with Unit 67. Having stand–offs with bobcats, which screech like a horror movie. Chasing down evildoers like Dudley Do-Right. Responding to emergencies. Being part of a grand Maine tradition—and a singular park that's a national treasure. Showing people how important and necessary wild places are.

I distinctly remember telling my sister when I was about five years old—my boy's age now—that I wanted to be a park ranger. And now a friend calls me Ranger Danger. I love it.

It isn't all easy, though, sacrifice and compromise being defining conditions of adulthood. I typically, in the words of a fellow ranger, play nine holes every day. Which is to say I dutifully scrub as many outhouses. (My mom laughs that I went to a fine college and got a degree in English and history only to clean toilets; she jests, though, and completely understands the appeal of park life.) When you do it every day, fighting the forces of feces isn't as onerous as it may sound, and it's a very small price to pay for the privilege of living here. 

Park rangers certainly aren't in it for the money—I had jobs that paid more fifteen years ago in college—but I've been able to augment my monthly income with all the writing I can get done at night when I'm off duty. The salary is a lot different than the one I gave up to take this job, and I bought my house when I was making that kind of money. There are months when simply paying the mortgage is a challenge. I have to work every day of the week in the summer in order to sustain the lifestyle. Both cars in our household have over 200,000 miles on them now. Property taxes are a killer.

I occasionally have to deal with difficult people, which isn't exactly a favorite—rangers spend a fair amount of time telling people what they're not allowed to do. (I'm constantly bemused at being looked at by park visitors as some sort of authority figure—I got into this because I'm a nature lover, a punk-rock kid, because of Desert Solitaire and The Dharma Bums, not because of some innate desire to be a lawman. I think that's true of most park rangers.)

The hours are long. The bugs in the North Woods of June are so ferocious it's almost comical, and I've become a weary soldier in a dragged-out war against the mice in my cabin. Appalachian Trail hikers smell. I have to do more paperwork than you might imagine. I missed most of the last World Cup.

And without a doubt, the worst aspect is that each summer I spend a couple days a week away from my wife and son. Being a freelance writer allows me to be home all the time when I am home, but for twenty-something weeks, I'm not. Which is hard on all of us, perhaps most of all my little boy, known to my fellow rangers as "Unit Point Five." (He got this name when I was Unit 5.) He and my wife both love the park, though, and they understand its importance to me.

We make it work. If nothing else, it's an adventure. My son gets to spend his formative years in one of the most beautiful places in the country, and to learn a self-sufficiency and resourcefulness that is so often lost in our culture. He gets to see that happiness is not made from the things you buy and bring with you but rather from life and love and the adventure they bring.

Despite all of these challenges, it's far and away the best job I've ever had. At this point, I'd even rather be a ranger than a rock star. I don't regret in the slightest saying goodbye to my old job, its ways and its wages, its fancy title and prestige, though I do miss the people. I don't miss the phone, the television, the Internet. It was the right choice, at the right time in my life.

Because I make my own schedule for much of the year, and have a lot of free time due to the quietude of the park, my creativity has exploded. I've written a novel about these same woods 150 years earlier, and am halfway through a screenplay (about a park ranger, natch). I have a nonfiction book under way, and I've written many new songs for my band's next record. I read