The following is a guest post from Laura Christianson, author of The Adoption Decision: 15 Things You Want to Know Before Adopting
Have you thought about adopting a child, but gotten scared off by rumors of exorbitant adoption fees?
Adopting doesn’t have to be an impossible dream. During this three-part series, you’ll discover some practical steps you can take to make adopting a child a dream come true.
- In Part 1, you’ll learn how much adoption costs, and why.
- In Part 2, you’ll learn about resources that will help you offset adoption costs.
- In Part 3, you’ll learn “tightwad tactics” that will help you save half the money you need to adopt within one year.
Adoption fees vary drastically, depending on the type of adoption you pursue. Public agency adoption generally has no fees or extremely low fees, because state-run agencies usually place children who are age 3 or older, are part of a sibling group, are an ethnic minority, or have medical, developmental, or emotional challenges stemming from abuse or neglect.
Private or independent adoption (illegal in some states), in which prospective adoptive and birth parents find one another directly, is generally less expensive than working with a private adoption agency. However, there’s also a greater financial risk for adoptive parents. If a pregnant woman decides to parent, you will probably not receive a refund on money you paid for her medical bills and/or living expenses.
Fees are all over the board for licensed private-agency adoption. Fees for domestic infant adoption usually range from $15,000 to $30,000 and fees for international adoption typically range from $10,000 to $40,000.
What do adoption fees pay for?
Some people mistakenly assume adoptive parents “buy” their children. Child trafficking, while illegal, is rampant worldwide, as unethical “baby brokers” try to make a quick buck off of trading a child as a commodity.
The fees adoptive parents pay help prevent child trafficking. Adoption fees fund a variety of professional services and enable an adoption to progress safely and legally. Here are a few of those services:
- Reviewing application to adopt
- Locating children available for adoption
- Locating prospective birth parents
- Professional counseling, education, and training for birth and adoptive families
- Pre- and post-placement visits to the adoptive home by an adoption social worker
- Paperwork processing
If you’re deciding which type of adoption to pursue, collect data from a variety of public and private agencies, adoption facilitators, adoption attorneys, and adoption social workers. Ask them for a written explanation of their services and exactly what their fees will and will not cover. When you find an adoption professional with whom you feel comfortable—both emotionally and financially—go for it!
Click here to read part 2 of this series: Resources to help you offset adoption costs.
How high fees should prevent child trafficking is beyond me. True, not every crook can adopt and then sell, but high fees are creating a market for child traffickers in the first place! If adoption was more or less free, the costs for the control of integrity of the adoptive parents (social workers, etc) could still be burdened, however, the exorbitant costs currently either lead to a lot of children living a worse life than they could or else to some children being stolen and sold to desparate adults that are tricked to believe they have found a cheaper agency.
Posted by: Felix | December 15, 2007 at 05:08 AM
Adoption fees are a scam. Children are being treated as a commodity when exorbitant prices are charged. The best way to prevent children from being sold is to make it worthless to deal in children. Any "agency" that claims that money curbs human trafficking is flat out lying. Put it this way. Why is there no illegal market for vacuum cleaner dust? Perhaps we can curb the practice of illegal sale of desert sands by charging millions of dollars a pound for the stuff. Oh wait... There is no market for desert sands... Hmmm wonder why?
My wife and I can not have children and would love to adopt but have ZERO chance of doing so because we can not afford even $2,000 much less $30,000. Sure we could get a handicapped child for less but I do not want a child that has downs syndrome, is drug addicted or not of the same race. We want to sped time with many children, get to know them and pick the one(s) that are right for us and best fit with us as people.
Facts are the facts. Adoption agencies are child brokers. Just because you make the "perspective parents" jump through more hoops does not mean the child or new parents are on the winning end of the game. If the true goal was child wale fare then money would not be an issue.
Posted by: Justin Case | August 23, 2012 at 11:20 PM