For those of you new to Free Money Finance, I post on The Bible and Money every Sunday. Here's why.
Here's a piece from Crosswalk where the author talks about getting several "unusual" pieces from a televangelist:
Revell, editor of SBC Life, the journal of the Southern Baptist Convention's Executive Committee, was inspired to write the book after a few teenage boys in a discipleship group he leads pulled a prank and placed his name on the mailing list of a televangelist.
"Over the next 18 months, I received some of the most bizarre correspondence ever sent in the name of Christ," Revell said. "This man claimed that God had given him specific visions concerning me and my particular situation, and he promised all manner of physical and financial 'blessings' if I would only follow his outlandish instructions -- and send him money."
I know what he means. I'm on mailing lists (who knows how I got there) of a couple similar televangelists who do all sorts of things to get me to send them money. Of course, they promise me financial blessings if I give to them -- that goes without saying. But what bothers me the most is the gimmicks they use to get me to give -- a penny that will "reap a harvest" for me, a rubber band so I can "snap myself to attention", a piece of cloth to remind me of I can't remember what (but I can remember thinking "how cheesy.)
Now let me be clear -- I do believe that if you give to help others that you yourself will be blessed financially. Yes, it seems strange, but if you give more you get more. Furthermore, many of you know that I support charities with the profits from this blog. And I also believe that if you follow the Bible's teachings about money, you will become wealthy (it's simple math, after all.) But all that said, I can't stand people who try to manipulate and/or use gimmicks to get others to give. It boils my blood.
As someone who does fundraising for charities quite often, I simply lay out the vision and needs of the charity and then allow the person or group to decide whether or not they want to contribute. I don't pressure them, resort to making outlandish promises, or develop some sort of cheap gift that "encourages" them to give. To me these sorts of contrived actions are totally inappropriate, borderline dishonest, and just plain tacky. If ministries and charities are deserving, why don't they simply present the need? Why do they need to resort to such tactics? I know why, because they work (unfortunately), but it still really irks me to get such a solicitation.
How about you? Anyone out there received a fundraising appeal (of any sort -- mail, phone call, etc.) that has simply been over-the-top in one way or another?
You got on the list because churches and religious organizations sell their mailing lists.
Terry Schiavo's family sold the list of everyone who donated to them. Some reports estimated 7K just to use the list once. Classy, eh?
Posted by: dogatemyfinances | April 12, 2009 at 10:18 AM
I've been pretty lucky; in the six months I've had my own mailbox, I've only gotten one bit of junk mail similar to this. Supposedly, if I sent away, they'd send back a free, ABSOLUTELY FREAKING FREE NO QUESTIONS ASKED OMG ORDER NOW IT IS MAGICAL!!!, little statue of the Christ with a key chain ring . . . that had been blessed and prayed over so that it would be 'good luck'. The way they went on about its magical powers, I couldn't help but think it actually sounded downright Satanic.
Most people probably get stuck on these mailing lists in the first place by sending away for 'free' gimmicky junk like this. I couldn't throw it in the trash fast enough.
Posted by: FekketCantenel | April 12, 2009 at 10:20 AM
Interesting post. I am currently reading Money, Possessions, and Eternity by Randy Alcorn and he addresses this topic specifically. He states (and I agree) that people that support this type of giving (seed offering only to benefit themselves) use God as some sort of a genie, wishing well, or lottery. Where is the "cheerful giving" in that unless they are "cheerfully" awaiting their reward? I enjoy your blog, especially your Sunday posts. Keep up the good work!
Posted by: Kevin | April 12, 2009 at 05:13 PM
A few years ago I noticed my mom was getting a ton of mail every time I would go visit. She had gotten to the point where she was sending out small checks to every charity that sent her something. She had keychains, magnets, prayer books, you name it. So I printed out some info. on some of the charities and showed her how much of the money went to expenses and how much actually went to people in need. It took a while but I finally convinced her to only give to the few she felt the most strongly about. I did some research to try to find out how to get her off the mailing lists but there is nothing like the list you can sign up for to stop junk mail. I pay her bills for her now and sometimes I'll see where she has written a check to a "charity" for something they sent her. It's sad the way these charities prey on older people. She really felt like she was doing good and making a difference.
Posted by: Laura S. | April 12, 2009 at 06:51 PM
This isn't a televangelist appeal, but another form of obnoxious fund raising anyways.
I live in a town of about 6000 people in the northern midwest. A few years ago a community family's kid died of cancer. They started a foundation to raise money to "Fight Cancer". They give a big presentation to the grade and high schools here each year and get the school kids to go out and do fund raising for it.
My siblings are both in school still and keep pestering me to donate. Every time I ask them "Ok, what do they actually _do_ to fight cancer" and no one seems to know. My brother just keeps trying to make me feel bad and saying "but it's for a good cause".Even if they are forwarding the money to a research facility or something, I would rather send my money directly and cut out whatever overhead the foundation has...
Posted by: Frank | April 13, 2009 at 11:23 AM